alone in a sea of relation

Femi's Family frequently forgets to fake feelings for her. well no its not quite that bad. but heres the kind of thing that goes down. my b day was in june no one called or sent a card nothing..... i get in to graduate school same deal no one calls or sends a card or nothing. my cousin has a birthday and he gets three cakes gifts the whole nine. my family is in mariage mode two of my cousins are getting married in the next year... but they scheduled thier weddings knowing that i wouldnt be able to come because of school and stuff and instead of acting like they care that i wont be there they say and i qoute "we know ..... we were kinda planning on you not being there" and the end all be all of heart wrenching pain my aunt wants me to get gastric bipass because she feels it would let me walk better im 30 pounds over weight thats true but ive recently lost 45 pounds and its not done anything for the way i get around cuase duh Femi has cerebral palsy. but my family wont take my word for it they swear up and down the reason i have joint problems is my weight........